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CIAO DATE: 12/99

The Need To Talk—Internationally

Sue Williams

Phase 1: The Art of Mediation Workshop
June 3, 1997

Initiative on Conflict Resolution and Ethnicity

 

In this presentation, I’ll be looking at why opponents need to talk to each other, drawing on my international experience of mediation, and particularly trying to highlight some of the current trends I see in my own work and other situations. This is, after all, the most basic issue in mediation: Why talk? In order to answer it, let’s look first at the dynamics of the kinds of situations that mediation tries to address: conflict. As my own experience is in political and social conflict, I shall concentrate on that.

If we imagine a conflicted society, we see two (or more) groups opposed to each other. Much of the visible conflict comes from a smaller militant group, perhaps the leaders or the more committed, wanting to defeat the other side. In order to do this, they try to gain various sorts of power over the other.

They may use direct and/or indirect violence against each other: outright physical attacks, or discrimination and injustice. This raises the stakes, demonstrating their own commitment to winning and testing the commitment of the other side. They may try to get more people on their side, by persuading people from the other side to join them, or by mobilising more active support within their own group. A third option is through alliances or solidarity, by expanding the frame to gain support from people outside the situation.

For all three of these options, there is no need to talk with the other side. Even in attempting to convert them, we are likely to preach at them rather than talk, and we are unlikely to listen. The dialogue is all on one’s own side, and anyone who does talk in a human way with the other side is likely to be seen as a traitor.

It is in this context that mediation occurs. Only when a group is prepared to look for a settlement with the other side, instead of or in addition to trying to defeat them, will they consider mediation, negotiation, problem-solving—all processes which expand the frame to include the other side in deciding the outcome. Now there is a need to talk.

The transition is difficult. A willingness to talk to the enemy may be seen as a sign of weakness, a granting of legitimacy, a concession. For this reason, much political mediation has traditionally happened in secret, while public denial of talks continues, right up to the time when a settlement or formal process is announced. This means that the public is often ill-prepared for the change. It can also mean that even the leaders involved in the talks give themselves and their colleagues mixed messages about how and why they engage in mediation.

Usually, it is ordinary people who suffer most from the violence, caught between the sides and used as pawns. Yet those who have suffered most are often the ones who see most clearly the need to talk, because the alternative is to create more suffering. It is often ordinary people who take the risks to make contact with the enemy, and who push the politicians into talking. They also take the talking seriously, holding out for real solutions which bring real change, and not just talks about talks about talks.

In order to see current trends in mediation, here is my rough outline of previous trends, what we might call ‘Traditional’ mediation.

More recently, this has been balanced by a broader framework and some very different ways of working.

In all of these ways, there seems to be what I see as a positive trend to broaden the framework—to include more people at more levels, to understand the related contributions of different approaches to problems, and to devise processes and solutions which make sense locally, rather than importing fixed models. War tends to involve as actors selected groups of people who are willing to use violence. Traditional mediation also involved few actors, those who were seen as spokesmen for important groups. The trend now seems to be more participatory, involving more people actively in more processes. It is important to keep clear the links between the levels and the kinds of action, so that the contributions of each can be acknowledged. But the broader participation offers greater hope for creative alternatives, for broad commitment to a settlement, and for social change.

These changes also reveal some risks and potential problems.

There is often now unseemly competition in mediation, as individuals try to build reputations and charge high fees, and countries try to make a name for themselves. These agendas interfere destructively with the objectives of mediation.

I also see a countervailing tendency not to mediate at all, or to use mediation to wrong-foot the opponent and manipulate public opinion. Examples of this would be Zaire, Rwanda, and the siege in Peru. This is, of course, a way of saying that someone does not see the need to talk. It may be a reminder of the importance of timing, the need to make clear what mediation can offer, and the responsibility of leaders to read the signs and know when their group is ready to move. It also suggests that one dilemma for mediators is how to create the openings so that people who are ready can move toward mediation, while limiting the risk that the opening can be used to discredit mediation or indeed any other form of talking to the other side.